Same S**t, Better Days
^May 13, 2025
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So, I've just been working and doing what I gotta do to get my stuff done. Y'know, achieve my goals. And it's been getting better and better. It's actually insane.
My life been kinda hectic just a year ago today—maybe more like a year and a month ago—but still. I was just getting out of a bad time and into another one. What's the saying? Outta the pan and into the fire? Yeah, that kinda situation.
I was homeless and living in a shelter that was ABUSIVE to my family and I. So we had no choice, but to leave! I have documentation of it all, too. And they did nothing. I contacted ombudsman cause ya girl a ✨snitch✨! And lowkey, I'm proud of that. Like, I'll tell on everyone. I call the cops! I'll call my daddy! Heaven, I even call GOD if you keep playing with me.
But, anywho! So, we finally moved out with our little savings and started hoping from Airbnb to Airbnb. Longest I stayed somewhere during the last year was three months. Just imagine: every Friday packing your stuff up with two kids and waiting in a car/outside for the next Airbnb to be ready at 4PM.n/n/It was an experience. And now, we have an apartment. I'm saving money. I'm getting recognition. I'm happier! My kids are happier! Oh, and I'm making ✨more money✨!I'm a brand! And it's just getting better and better! Say it funny cause that's how I said it. Like, with a funny messed up Italian/NJ accent. Yeah, just like that. Hehe.
Autism Research
May 11, 2025
Happy Mother's Day
They Been Knew — But I’m Sayin’ It Anyway
🧬🍼🧃💅🏾🛑Y’all… I been peeped this.All these babies getting diagnosed left and right, and nobody wanna ask the real questions. Like how we went from a handful of cases to 1 in 36 kids getting hit with the "autism" label — and it’s happening way more in Black and Brown communities now. Coincidence? Baby, nothing is ever a coincidence.Let’s talk phthalates (yeah, that word sounds like a sneeze, but stay with me). These are toxic little plastic chemicals found in damn near everything — fast food wrappers, perfume, your baby’s toys, shampoo, and even some vaccines. They’re in pill coatings too, hiding under names like DEP, DBP, DEHP, PVAP, and CAP. Cute names. Whole lotta toxic shit.These chemicals disrupt hormones, especially during pregnancy (prenatal vitamins, hmm?) — meaning that lil baby is growing with scrambled signals before they even take their first breath. And studies (I’m talkin’ real peer-reviewed science) are saying:🧠 Boys exposed to high levels of phthalates in the womb show more autistic traits.
🔗 Source: Environmental Health PerspectivesSo guess who’s getting hit the hardest? Black and Hispanic boys.
Why? Cause our communities are overexposed to this crap.We use more personal care products (thanks to cultural standards — don’t nobody wanna be ashy or funky, duh)We eat more fast food cause it’s cheaper and fasterAnd we live in places where the environment itself is full of plastic exposureAccording to this study:🧪 Black men had the highest levels of urinary phthalates — way more than White or Hispanic men.
🔗 Source: NIH / PMC Study Another one said:Hispanic/Latina women and Black women had up to 148% more phthalates in their bodies than White women.
🔗 Source: Environmental Health Perspectives via PMC And now, for the first time ever, the CDC said this out loud:Autism rates in Black and Hispanic kids are now higher than in White kids.
🔗 Source: CDC 2023 Report And still... nobody’s putting these puzzle pieces together for us. So I am. 'Cause I’m tired of watching our babies get hit with labels while the root of the issue gets ignored. This ain’t about blame — it’s about truth.👁️ 👄 👁️What now?You ain’t gotta throw everything away, but baby you better start reading labels. Stop letting them gaslight us like we’re crazy for asking questions. Ain’t nothing crazy about noticing patterns and wanting our babies to thrive.This ain’t fear — this is awareness.
This is protection.
This is healing from the inside out.You want more blogs like this? I got you.
Bookmark it, share it, comment if you felt it.
I’m just getting started. 🧬🫧🖤
UPDATE
May 9, 2025
SO FAN GIRLING OVER MYSELFFFFF! I am top 10% of song writers!! LIKE IN THE ENTIRE WORLD! Or just in the industry!
GIRL! (or boy) I am ELEVATINGGGGGG!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHAlso, I have an author page on Amazon now. Check it out!OH! And another thing, a new song dropping soon called Beg For It!
Tarot's The Back Burner
May 9, 2025
Sooo, I've been doing so much that I haven't been going live on TikTok. It's actually bothering me, a lot. Not only is a great source of income, but it's also a way I give back and guide the younger generation.
And I'm so seriuos when I say this.
I literally had a dream about me guiding the younger generation and keeping them light hearted and laughing. I want to continue that energy into my waking life. I see doing readings as a way to do that. I help them see the problems in their lives and also do what my little tarot disclaimer is: entertain them. If you don't know, tarot is just for entertainment purposes only.
But, if you wanna book with me, email me! I'm not open for bookings to the public anymore (I removed my links on my website). You can still ask me and I'll feel your vibe and see if I can fwu.
Email Me
Or send a message directly to: [email protected] The link only works for mobile devices right now!
But, yes, now you understand my problem! I am slacking because I've been being so creative. I published two books that you can buy on Amazon! Just look up China Nealy and it'll pop up. If not, I guess I could link both books (thanks for your support)! A New Burrow and Prints in the Mud are available on Amazon. I also would love to tell you that A New Burrow is out paperback, hard cover, and ebook. Prints in the Mud is pending when it comes to paperback, but you can get it as an ebook right now! Okay, enough of the commercial break...
As you can see, I'm getting busy and it's just hard to sit down for an hour doing lives. I wanna just create stuff! But, my people need me. Sigh lol. That's the end of the blog. Thanks for reading! Talk to you soon.
Hustle Mode Activate
May 6, 2025So, we're doing this. After today, it's forever. I'm going to work hard and get what I need to get done. No more pretending. No more letting opinions stop me. I mean, I've been on this type of time, but it's going harder.If an ugly bitch wanna send me evil eye because I'm writing kids books, fuck them. If someone wanna judge me cause I'm doing tarot card readings--honestly, get a fucking life. I'm tired of pretending and hoping and begging GOD to make something shake, when I'm the one shaking in fear of judgement.There's this female, her name is Aly. And if you know, yes I used her name in a children's book. She is basically a tarot card reader, but she's also a motivational speaker. She be really hyping me up and I love that type of shit. So, here we are. We on one.I'm never going backwards. I was lowkey about to give up on Facebook. Look, I'm shamelessly plugging it now! Go follow me!I'm not giving up on shit. I can't believe it. But, yeah. I'm shadowed banned so you'll have to keep checking to see if I post lol. I still won't be posting everyday, but I will be promoting my shit. Like this cute shirt I designed. Clicked here!!!Anywho. Enough promos. I will be back with another blog soon. Just your friendly reminder, don't give up!!
Chyna Vs China
May 3, 2025Imagine your whole life you've been called by another name. And imagine you were never told your real name...okay except once when my older sister wanted to hurt my feelings. And to be fair, she also told me I was adopted so why would I believe her. Actually...thinking on it, if she was right about my name... maybe I was adopted. BUT LET'S GET BACK TO THE FOCUS AT HAND!So, anywho, just imagine you got to school and all your paperwork is this name. Imagine your diploma is this name! Like, come on, even all your names on the attendance roster was the only name you've known. Hell! Even when you applied for food stamps your card came back with your name on it...but then, you find out it was wrong.ALL OF IT!How would you feel?Honestly, I think I was destoryed when I found out that my legal name wasn't what I was raised to believe. My mom may or may not have forged my documents to have the name Chyna instead of China. It really isn't that big of a difference. I'm still China, but a spelling can change everything. First of all, Chyna is so much cooler, in my opinion. Secondly, well...that's it. Chyna is cooler.So, I kept it. I didn't legally change it (that's too much hassle) and I just kept people calling and knowing me as Chyna, the cool one. Eventually, adulting kicked in and it started being annoying asking everyone to call me Chyna. To make sure that they place a Y instead of an I.And eventually, I gave up. So, today, China won.I mean, I write music all the time and my name is China, so legally, I have to write my own paychecks and I have to cash them. So, Chyna doesn't even make money. And, Chyna isn't the mother of my children. She's never around either, wasn't even there to sign their birth certificates. She literally only graduated from high school. She didn't even go to college! What a loser. Being cool isn't all that it's cracked up to be, I guess.I mean, honestly! She only existed until I graduated (and got food stamps that one time).My diploma was her death certificate because that was the last documentation of her (besides me using her for an alter ego on social media).I LOVE the name Chyna, but I've been an adult for so long that I barely see it now. And my presence is being known and documented as China Nealy. That's who I am.Legally. Spiritually. And now, mentally.